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A Thankful Heart is a Generous Heart

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As Thanksgiving approaches most of us will have an opportunity to unplug, evaluate, and offer thanks to God for the numerous blessings in our lives without the typical interruptions which accompany our normal routines. Yet, this familiar season of gratitude also exposes the nagging, internal struggle that wreaks havoc in the typical American heart. Though we want to grow in thankfulness, enticements toward greed often overcome us.

Last year, a record 183.4 million Americans lamented shopping between Thanksgiving Day and Cyber Monday, not out of need, but due to deals that were simply too good to pass up. The entire month of November now seemingly functions as a rolling Black Friday sale, creating faux urgency and false demand. Long lines outside of Wal-Mart and lightening deals online turn shopping into a competitive sport with winners and losers. Even with more consumers choosing to take their business online, nefarious brawls in big box stores over merchandise evoke little more than a yawn these days.

Lost in all the mayhem is the genuine gratitude we ought to have for our numerous blessings. Greed and appreciation always move in opposite directions. The former insists, “I deserve more than have,” while the latter recognizes, “I have more than I deserve.” Any form of materialism or covetousness is the antithesis of celebrating God’s many provisions. You simply cannot rehearse a list of disappointments and appreciate an abundance of gifts at the same time.

Focusing upon ourselves may increase the scope of our possessions, but it most certainly diminishes the health of our souls as well. Greed leads to ingratitude, which results in a lack of contentment, birthing envy of others and resentment toward God. Always wanting more will quench any effort to worship meaningfully. What, then, is the remedy?

Not surprisingly, Jesus had much to say about using our wealth correctly. The foundational principle that undergirds each of His instructions is straightforward: your heart will always follow your treasure (Matt. 6:21). Many argue just the opposite, insisting that we will give to what we are most passionate about. Yet, Christ corrects our modern misgivings which covertly protect our insatiable greed. Whatever you give to will become important to you.

Want a heart for God’s kingdom? Use your resources accordingly. Are you seeking to be more loving toward others? Be generous with those in need. Do you long to love your church more? Invest in it financially. Looking to grow your compassion for the lost who are outside of Christ? Give sacrificially toward that end. Wanting to count your blessings this Thanksgiving? Stop looking for what you can gain and start asking what you can give.

Generosity is the key which sets us free from the prison of greed and selfishness. Scripture is unflinching in its commands about wealth. Christians should live with a continual awareness that all our possessions belong to the Lord, who supplies us with every treasure we enjoy (1 Tim. 6:17). Ultimately, our security must be in our God, not the gold or goods we possess. Wealth can produce a blind, arrogant confidence if we fail to acknowledge the divine source behind our valuables. Giving thanks not only reminds us that God is real, but also that He is both active and benevolent in our lives.

Once we see ourselves as stewards of that which belongs to the Lord, we should seek to be rich in good works by being generous and ready to share with others (1 Tim. 6:18). Statistics indicate that Christians are by far the most charitable of all demographics, donating more money and volunteering more time, and yet, I suspect that our generosity is still lacking by God’s standards. Again, Jesus is direct when confronting our shortsightedness, by challenging us to store up secured treasure in heaven rather than vulnerable wealth upon this earth (Matt. 6:19-20). Greed says live for today; God says live for eternity (1 Tim. 6:19).

So, how can we grow in our generosity?

First, giving should be personal for every Christian. When writing to the church at Corinth, Paul encouraged their participation in a collection for Jerusalem Christians who were living in poverty (1 Cor. 16:1, 2 Cor. 8:1-7). Just as other churches had participated, the loving apostle expected Corinthian believers to do so as well. Likewise, today, supporting God’s work financially should be a joyful obligation instead of a begrudged option for those who know the Lord.

Second, giving should be prioritized by every Christian. The early church not only met on the first day of the week (Acts 20:7), but also received offerings as well (1 Cor. 16:2a). Weekly giving greatly increases our capacity to support God’s kingdom initiatives. Whatever amount you think you are capable of sharing, I am confident that number can grow if you set aside a portion of your weekly income.

Third, giving should be proportional for every Christian. We offer resources as the Lord prospers us (1 Cor. 16:2b). The beauty of tithing, for example, is that a tenth of a small amount is just as much a tithe as a tenth of a larger portion. Regarding offerings, God does not expect us to bring gifts that we do not have (2 Cor. 8:12). The goal is equal sacrifice, not equal sums.

Finally, giving should be protected after it is received. Churches, for example, have a sacred responsibility to secure gifts through stringent accountability measures. The Bible calls for common sense precautions so that only what is right and honorable in the eyes of the Lord and people is acceptable (1 Cor. 16:3-4, 2 Cor. 8:20-21).

How thankful are you this year? Perhaps a better question is how generous are you with others? Who will you bless this Thanksgiving?

Adam B. Dooley
November 19, 2025

The Generosity God Seeks

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Her words stopped me in my tracks.

“I need to verify your insurance information, Mr. Dooley, but you will never receive a bill from the hospital,” she stated casually. I should have known; after all, I see the same commercials that you see from time to time. Yet, I am embarrassed to admit that previously I failed to pay attention. At this point, I knew little about childhood cancer and even less about St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis. What was second nature to the woman in registration was news to me.

“How is that possible?” I asked.

“Because of generous donors around the world,” she explained, “our patients never receive a bill from the hospital. There will be no charge for whatever your insurance fails to pay.”

No charge?

“No charge. You take care of your son and let us take care of the rest.”

And take care of it they did. Every flight we took to Memphis (over 100). Every mile we drove. Every meal we ate while there. Every room we stayed in overnight. Every vial of chemo my son received. Every MRI, CT scan, and clinic visit. No expense was spared, and no expense was laid at our feet.

No charge. No strings attached.

When it was all over, we estimated that St. Jude spent nearly 2 million dollars to help our son get well. Words cannot describe the deep gratitude our family feels for the abundant, unrestricted generosity of the world’s premier research hospital leading the fight against childhood cancer. To this day, it takes my breath away.

Frankly, the whole experience gave me a completely new outlook on living a generous life even as it convicted me. No secular organization, no matter how wonderful, should model the sacrificial giving God seeks more than the church of the Lord Jesus. As a pastor, I not only want to model biblical generosity for my people, but I also want to teach them to prioritize the Lord’s work.

Discussions on money and giving are sometimes taboo even though significant portions of Scripture are devoted to these subjects. While the lies of the prosperity gospel leave many wishing to avoid the subject altogether, faithful pastors seeking to preach the whole counsel of God recognize the undeniable connection between our view of wealth and our spiritual maturity. Simply put, wherever we put our treasure, our heart will necessarily follow (Matt. 6:21). Despite our best efforts to ignore it, most Christians instinctively understand that either God or money will rise to prominence in our lives, leaving no room for the other to capture our hearts (Matt. 6:24).  The biblical antidote for worshipping at the altar of the almighty dollar is generous giving to God’s kingdom work (Matt. 6:19-20).

So, instead of focusing on whether we should give, allow me to make some observations about how we should give.  Five patterns emerge as we consider the generosity God seeks.

Our giving should be sacrificial. While describing the giving of the Macedonians to the ministry of the church, Paul says they gave despite their great affliction and poverty (2 Cor. 8:2) in a way that was according to their ability and beyond their ability (2 Cor. 8:3). Sharing resources that we will never miss falls short of the sacrifice God is seeking in our giving.

Our giving should be intentional. Not only does Paul challenge the Corinthian believers to participate in the offering for the Jerusalem church, but he also tells them to plan ahead and set aside their gift well before its collection (2 Cor. 9:5). Allotting funds each week is the best strategy because it increases our capacity to give more than in single moments (1 Cor. 16:1).  Being intentional pushes the kingdom’s agenda to the forefront of our budget by protecting us from reactionary giving out of our leftovers.

Our giving should be cheerful. Lest anyone think that generosity is defined by certain dollar amounts, Paul also highlights the heart and attitude that should accompany our offerings.  Giving only when coerced or forced creates a religious hypocrisy that resembles a whitewashed tomb rather than a transformed heart. God desires cheerful anticipation as we give out of devoted resolve to build eternal treasure (2 Cor. 9:7).

Our giving should be proportional. Much like a swinging pendulum, the proportional nature of giving is obvious in two distinct ways. First, what we give away should be proportional to what God has given us. Second, what God gives us is often proportional to what we are willing to give away. Do you want to be generous? Give as God as given to you. Do you want to be more generous? God can (and will) give you everything you need to be as generous as He wants you to be (2 Cor. 9:8-11).

Our giving should be worshipful. Not only does supporting God’s kingdom work lead those who benefit to worship God, but it also points the giver back to the One who gave more than any material possession we might part with. Giving reminds us of the “indescribable gift” of God’s Son (2 Cor. 9:15). Though Jesus was rich, He became poor so that we might become wealthy because of His poverty (2 Cor. 8:9). Sustained generosity not only makes us more like Jesus, it also helps us to appreciate the depth and breadth of His great sacrifice for us.

Adam B. Dooley
July 15, 2025

**This article first appeared with the release of Hope When Life Unravels. Order your copy today wherever books are sold.